High‑conflict divorce is exhausting, especially when children are repeatedly pulled into adult battles. A parental coordinator helps parents reduce day‑to‑day conflict, so children are less exposed to arguments, loyalty pulls and ongoing tension.​

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What a parental coordinator does

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• Focuses on practical co‑parenting decisions when communication has broken down.

• Keeps children’s wellbeing at the centre of discussions, even when parents strongly disagree.​

• Helps parents reduce children’s exposure to conflict by coaching them to use calmer, more business‑like communication.​

• Works alongside lawyers and the court process, but is child‑focused rather than legal‑focused.

When this service is helpful

Parental coordination may be suitable if:

• There are frequent arguments about schedules, handovers or school decisions.

• Children are witnessing conflict, getting “messages” to pass between homes, or feel they must take sides.​

• Previous mediation or agreements have not stopped the ongoing conflict.

How sessions work

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• Meetings can be online (Hong Kong, UK and international) or in person where possible.​

• Parents may attend together or separately, depending on safety and level of conflict.

• The focus is on concrete plans, clear communication and protecting children from ongoing hostility.